{"id":682,"date":"2022-01-30T19:03:02","date_gmt":"2022-01-30T18:03:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/?p=682"},"modified":"2022-01-30T19:03:03","modified_gmt":"2022-01-30T18:03:03","slug":"i-dobre-umysly-mohou-znacit-problem-osobnosti-spasitelsky-komplex-je-nezdravy-rys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/?p=682","title":{"rendered":"I dobr\u00e9 \u00famysly mohou zna\u010dit probl\u00e9m osobnosti. Spasitelsk\u00fd komplex je nezdrav\u00fd rys"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Mo\u017en\u00e1 za to m\u016f\u017ee va\u0161e d\u011btstv\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pom\u00e1hat druh\u00fdm lidem je v\u011bt\u0161inou vlastnost, kterou si na druh\u00e9 cen\u00edme. Je po\u017eadovan\u00e1 a pozitivn\u00ed. U n\u011bkter\u00fdch v\u0161ak tento rys zach\u00e1z\u00ed do nezdrav\u00e9ho extr\u00e9mu. Trp\u00ed takzvan\u00fdm spasitelsk\u00fdm komplexem, jinak naz\u00fdvan\u00fdm tak\u00e9 syndrom ryt\u00ed\u0159e na b\u00edl\u00e9m koni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V takov\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b se pomoc okol\u00ed m\u011bn\u00ed v nezdrav\u00fd zp\u016fsob bojov\u00e1n\u00ed s vlastn\u00edmi probl\u00e9my. \u010clov\u011bk si j\u00ed chce \u010dasto potvrdit i svou hodnotu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

„Spasitel“ se toti\u017e c\u00edt\u00ed dob\u0159e jen tehdy, kdy\u017e n\u011bkomu pom\u00e1h\u00e1, v\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee jeho smyslem je ob\u011btovat se pro druh\u00e9 a zavrhnout sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed pot\u0159eby, nebo\u0165 by m\u011bl b\u00fdt v\u00edce u\u017eite\u010dn\u00fd pro jin\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Podle terapeutky Cynthie Catchingsov\u00e9 je zachra\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed lid\u00ed pro „spasitele“ jednodu\u0161\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e zab\u00fdvat se vlastn\u00edmi \u017eivotn\u00edmi okolnostmi, kter\u00e9 nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aby se odpoutali od vlastn\u00ed bezmocnosti a probl\u00e9m\u016f, sna\u017e\u00ed se m\u00edt pod kontrolou probl\u00e9my jin\u00fdch, vysv\u011btlila pro Thrive Global. Nejz\u00e1sadn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je, \u017ee tito ryt\u00ed\u0159i (a ryt\u00ed\u0159ky) na b\u00edl\u00e9m koni nemaj\u00ed vymezen\u00e9 hranice. Proto nen\u00ed ni\u010d\u00edm v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00fdm, \u017ee dosp\u011bj\u00ed do stadia vyho\u0159en\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mo\u017en\u00e1 za to m\u016f\u017ee d\u011btstv\u00ed<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Predispozice k chov\u00e1n\u00ed typick\u00e9 pro spasitelsk\u00fd komplex u lid\u00ed \u010dasto pramen\u00ed v d\u011btstv\u00ed a v nefunk\u010dn\u00ed rodinn\u00e9 dynamice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pr\u00e1v\u011b ran\u00e9 probl\u00e9my v rodin\u011b mohou vy\u00fastit v to, \u017ee si \u010dlov\u011bk vyvine sv\u00e1 mechanismus zvl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fdch situac\u00ed v \u017eivot\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V tomto p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b v podob\u011b zachra\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed v\u0161ech kolem sebe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Klinick\u00e1 psycholo\u017eka a psychoanalyti\u010dka Mary Lamia, autorka knihy Syndrom ryt\u00ed\u0159e na b\u00edl\u00e9m koni: Zachra\u0148te se od pot\u0159eby zachra\u0148ovat druh\u00e9, poznamen\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee existuje n\u011bkolik typ\u016f spasitel\u016f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed mohou b\u00fdt extr\u00e9mn\u011b empati\u010dt\u00ed a soucitn\u00ed, proto\u017ee vyr\u016fstali v dom\u00e1cnosti, kde je rodi\u010de emocion\u00e1ln\u011b nebo fyzicky zanedb\u00e1vali, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b museli oni sami na sebe p\u0159evz\u00edt roli rodi\u010d\u016f a starat se nap\u0159\u00edklad o mlad\u0161\u00ed sourozence.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Mo\u017en\u00e1 za to m\u016f\u017ee va\u0161e d\u011btstv\u00ed. Pom\u00e1hat druh\u00fdm lidem je v\u011bt\u0161inou vlastnost, kterou si na druh\u00e9 cen\u00edme. Je po\u017eadovan\u00e1 a pozitivn\u00ed. U n\u011bkter\u00fdch v\u0161ak tento rys zach\u00e1z\u00ed do nezdrav\u00e9ho extr\u00e9mu. Trp\u00ed takzvan\u00fdm spasitelsk\u00fdm komplexem, jinak naz\u00fdvan\u00fdm tak\u00e9 syndrom ryt\u00ed\u0159e na b\u00edl\u00e9m koni. V takov\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b se pomoc okol\u00ed m\u011bn\u00ed v nezdrav\u00fd zp\u016fsob bojov\u00e1n\u00ed s vlastn\u00edmi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":683,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-682","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-rady-a-navody"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/682","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=682"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/682\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/683"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=682"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=682"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=682"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}