{"id":686,"date":"2022-01-30T19:04:25","date_gmt":"2022-01-30T18:04:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/?p=686"},"modified":"2022-01-30T19:04:26","modified_gmt":"2022-01-30T18:04:26","slug":"kdyz-porodila-dceru-byla-to-pro-ni-facka-zklamani-z-pohlavi-ditete-taji-mnoho-zen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/?p=686","title":{"rendered":"Kdy\u017e porodila dceru, byla to pro ni facka. Zklam\u00e1n\u00ed z pohlav\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte taj\u00ed mnoho \u017een"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Cht\u011bla bys rad\u011bji chlapce nebo holka? – pt\u00e1 se okol\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00e9 t\u011bhotn\u00e9 \u017eeny, zat\u00edmco je\u0161t\u011b o pohlav\u00ed o\u010dek\u00e1van\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte ani netu\u0161\u00ed. Odpov\u011bd\u00ed obvykle b\u00fdv\u00e1, \u017ee to je jedno, hlavn\u011b aby bylo zdrav\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ivan\u011b se p\u0159i t\u00e9to ot\u00e1zce v\u017edy p\u0159ehnala hlavou tajn\u00e1 my\u0161lenka, jak moc by si p\u0159\u00e1la dceru. Od za\u010d\u00e1tku t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed si s mu\u017eem o miminku pov\u00eddala jako o hol\u010di\u010dce. Potom p\u0159i\u0161el den ultrazvuku a gynekolog vyslovil s jistotou v hlase, \u017ee nos\u00ed pod srdcem chlapce. Tv\u00e1\u0159ila se nad\u0161en\u011b, i kdy\u017e j\u00ed to zlomilo srdce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eKdy\u017e mi poprv\u00e9 l\u00e9ka\u0159 \u0159ekl, \u017ee to bude kluk, vy\u0161la jsem ven a rozplakala jsem se. A ani jsem to nikomu ne\u0159ekla. Tvrdila jsem, \u017ee to l\u00e9ka\u0159 nevid\u011bl. Nebyla jsem s tou informac\u00ed s\u017eit\u00e1 a v hlav\u011b jsem byla nastavena, \u017ee se mo\u017en\u00e1 spletl, i kdy\u017e mi to pak potvrdil je\u0161t\u011b dvakr\u00e1t,\u201c vypr\u00e1v\u00ed pro SME \u010dty\u0159ic\u00e1tnice Ivana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Je to pocit, kter\u00fd dob\u0159e zn\u00e1 i Katherine Asbery, autorka knihy Altered Dreams: Living With Gender Disappointment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201eSly\u0161et v\u011btu ,je to chlapec‘ mi m\u011blo zp\u016fsobit velkou radost, ale m\u00edsto toho mi to p\u0159ineslo m\u011bs\u00edce hn\u011bvu a pop\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed. A tak\u00e9 hodn\u011b smutku a studu,\u201c p\u00ed\u0161e v n\u00ed. \u010cekala t\u0159et\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b a velmi si p\u0159\u00e1la, aby to byla po dvou synech kone\u010dn\u011b dcera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Odborn\u011b se pocit, kter\u00e9 \u017eeny v tomto textu popisuj\u00ed, naz\u00fdv\u00e1 rodov\u00e9 zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, resp. zklam\u00e1n\u00ed z pohlav\u00ed (z angl. gender disappointment). Je to jev, kdy\u017e nast\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed rodi\u010d nebo rodi\u010de tou\u017e\u00ed po konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm pohlav\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte a c\u00edt\u00ed se nejen zklaman\u00ed, ale i okraden\u00ed a rozzloben\u00ed, kdy\u017e se jim narod\u00ed to opa\u010dn\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Je to b\u011b\u017en\u00e1 psychologick\u00e1 zku\u0161enost mnoha t\u011bhotn\u00fdch \u017een, ale jen m\u00e1lokdy o n\u00ed otev\u0159en\u011b mluv\u00ed. Necht\u011bj\u00ed, aby jejich pocity jin\u00ed vn\u00edmali jako barometr toho, jak\u00e9 budou matky.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Cht\u011bla bys rad\u011bji chlapce nebo holka? – pt\u00e1 se okol\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00e9 t\u011bhotn\u00e9 \u017eeny, zat\u00edmco je\u0161t\u011b o pohlav\u00ed o\u010dek\u00e1van\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte ani netu\u0161\u00ed. Odpov\u011bd\u00ed obvykle b\u00fdv\u00e1, \u017ee to je jedno, hlavn\u011b aby bylo zdrav\u00e9. Ivan\u011b se p\u0159i t\u00e9to ot\u00e1zce v\u017edy p\u0159ehnala hlavou tajn\u00e1 my\u0161lenka, jak moc by si p\u0159\u00e1la dceru. Od za\u010d\u00e1tku t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed si s mu\u017eem o […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":687,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-686","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-rady-a-navody"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/686","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=686"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/686\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/687"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=686"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=686"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brnenskyvecernik.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=686"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}